Episode: ERP 041: Shifting From A Mindset Of Fear To A Mindset Of Love With Bryan Reeves

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ERP 041: Shifting From A Mindset Of Fear To A Mindset Of Love With Bryan Reeves

Overcoming Fear in Relationships

As a former US Air Force Captain, Bryan Reeves has now become an internationally renowned blogger, life and relationship coach and public speaker after hurling himself into the transformational fires of intimate relationships over and over and over again. With a Masters Degree in Human Relations and massive insight gleaned through countless adventures, Bryan now coaches men, women and couples in creating thriving lives and relationships.

In this episode, Bryan talks with us about his article “You’re Ready For All of Her, You’re a Goddamn Warrior.” He encourages us to recognize how easily we can buy into the story that our achievements and accomplishments determine our worth.  When we rely on external validation, we lose our center and crumble with every criticism. He inspires us to let go of our fear for love relationships and connect with our deepest purpose – Self Love.

(These are Show Notes: Be sure to listen to the episode to hear stories, examples, and more tips.)

Bryan addresses the:

  • Story that your external accomplishments and achievements are what define your worth.
  • False self-truth: “If I don’t have money, I am not worthy of love.”
  • Paradox between caring too much and not caring.
  • Feminine energy is often inviting the masculine energy to come into heart.
  • Beautiful process for navigating the masculine or navigating the feminine.

“We are missing the deepest truth about what we are here to do, that is to serve love. ~ Bryan Reeves”


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